OK... this forum SW seems to do some weird scrolling/refresh when the message gets long. I'll break into separte posts.
Saturday:
I get up, get coffee and then crank up obitalk to try and continue the debug. When I login to Obitalk, I now says the GV is connected! Green Icon! Woo-hoo! Then I try and use it, no dial tone. Drat.
So I cycle the power, it reconnects to obitalk and then I get intermittant dial tone. Sometime it works, sometime it doesn't. But i notice that there is a FW update available. OK, so I click the Obitalk FW update triangle. It says it's doing the update. Cool! 3-4 mins go by and it says 'FW update failed, try later". So I try a couple of more times, no joy.
Then I read the link/manual and the alternate way is to use the attendant. So I ***6, it says there is an update available, so I tell it to do the update, it tells me to hang up to start the update. So I hang up and wait. Nothing. No red light.
OK, so now I'm thing that maybe my DD-WRT router is blocking some needed ports. Dig through the faqs and get a list of outgoing ports and one incoming port. So I add that to the port forwarding ranges in DD-WRT. No luck, still can't do the FW update.
So download the FW from the Forum, then try update using the WAN connector and obitalk. No workie. So give up, head out to work party.