Wow, what a trip it's been--and it's only been a little over a week!
I went from landline/telemarketer Hell to master of my communications universe.
I started with an OBi202, GV and Callcentric. It all went together so seamlessly--with the help of people here. I love to stick it to telescammers, so I have a mature white list of people and businesses who are allowed to ring through to the house. The rest get the "Lenny" bot that wastes their time. I love the elegance of Callcentric's Call Treatments. They've got some great programmers working there.
What Callcentric couldn't help me with was the physical distance between Los Angeles (me) and NYC (them) and the latency and packet loss that were occurring from here to there. If you want to measure your potential quality of service, run some of these tests to a city where your server resides.
http://myvoipspeed.visualware.com/ Very informative. Even though I have reliable 50/50 FIOS internet, I had pretty bad latency and packet loss resulting in a low MOS score. We were talking over each other. No bueno.
So I went shopping for a service with a server in LA, and found
Voip.ms. I had a latency of only 7ms and zero packet loss to one of their LA servers, so I signed up. The connection to the OBi was a snap. No more talking over each other. The programming was tedious--you had to make a rule for each of the 70 members of your white list, and you have to record your own "press 1 if you're a human" message (it can be sooooo much more than that) but it was doable, and now I have loud, clear and lag-free conversations. Shoot, my daughter is in town interviewing for tech jobs in San Fran, and it was easy to program a rule that forwarded all house calls from the 415 area code directly to her cell phone.
I miss CC's elegant Call Treatments, but have managed to do everything I did over there here. If I could play mix-and-match, I would have CC's programmers with
Voip.ms's rate structure and ubiquitous servers.
So I guess my message to the other newbies out there is don't be afraid of change and if something isn't working, move on. Oh, and if you can't figure something out--ask! There are wonderfully helpful people here.
Thanks for all your help guys.