Your OBi110 is a very polite device and is designed not to "barge-in" if the landline is already in use. Mango has explained how to "barge-in" by pressing "#". Here's another idea, but only you can decide if it will suit your mother. My mother is 88, so I know how difficult some of this can be!
Maybe what you need is automatic "barge-in". This change would mean that if your mother picked up a handset connected to the OBi110 Phone Port and pressed the connect button, after 4 seconds it would automatically barge-in on the landline. You can change the 4 seconds to more or less as needed.
Add this rule <S4:#> to the Phone Port DigitMap. It could go anywhere, I have put it at the front:
Physical Interfaces > PHONE Port > DigitMap:
(<S4:#>|[1-9]x?*(Mpli)|[1-9]S9|[1-9][0-9]S9|911|**0|***|#|**1(Msp1)|**2(Msp2)|**8(Mli)|**9(Mpp)|(Mpli))
When originating a call from the phones connected to the OBi Phone Port, as soon as any digit is dialled, the new rule is ignored. If she is a bit slow and waits more than 4 seconds to dial the first digit, then she will be automatically dialling directly on the land line.
Anyhow, just a thought - good luck with it.