I'm always posting questions, here is an answer for a change.
I hate the x-lite free phone because of the blinking ad and it looks like a kid did it. Obiapp says it works with any sip softphone, but doesn't say how to set up.
Download free phone software here:
http://www.3cx.com/VOIP/voip-phone/It looks like:
http://www.3cx.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/3CXPhone-Windows.jpgtried to attach screen shots but it says its full
You need your 9 digit obi# for the computer the softphone & obiapp are on.
On new account page (manual set up)
Account name - obiapp or whatever, its for you
caller id - your public phone # , like 888 555 5555
extension and id are BOTH your 9 digit # like 290xxxxxxx
password blank
check "local-ip" the default, and put in 127.0.0.1
check use outbound proxy, and also put 127.0.0.1
thats it. No port numbers or undecipherable acronyms or codes.
Connected first time, worked first time.
Consider 3cx if you need a business solution!
They deserve something for giving away free softphones!
no i dont work for 3cx in any way.
its just a real phone app, instead of x-lites poor excuse.
happy softphone-ing