Hi all -
The link ianobi posted was just what I wanted - staying entirely on the LAN. All working well here now...
To answer Rick's question about using a pair from the Cat5e for just the PSTN, we are indeed running internet and ethernet between all the buildings: a router, three wifi access points including a high power external antenna, one 4 port and two 16 port Gigabit switches. So there's no pair to spare. And our DSL internet uplink is only 256 KBps, so losing 100kb of that to a phone call is just the wrong call when the PSTN is there, paid for, and reliable.
My next experiment will be to add a wifi to ethernet bridge or wifi extender with ethernet out and see if another Obi will work on that. It oughta...
I did receive instructions from Obihai to a support question asking about this, but it would have required going through their servers. Not what we want.
Thanks and I'm looking forward to learning more here.