Yeah - I don't have a PC with 2 NICs anymore.
I just tried flashing the firmware on my Netis router - something I should have done as soon as I installed it anyway. No luck, but it did give me different "forwarding" and "security" options - where the firewall and DMZ settings are located.
I'll try connecting the Obi directly to the DSL modem next - may as well eliminate the router from the equation.
*edit - yep, that worked (connecting the Obi directly to the modem). At least I'm to my next steps now. Of course without a PC connected, I had to log in to Obitalk from my cell phone in order to get a **5 code.
**edit - after getting the initial configuration done, I got to google voice set up and kept getting "Backing Off". So I hooked everything back up through my router and I'm continuing to troubleshoot. The problem seems to be my Netis router (cheap Chinese router with a terrible web admin config page).
Now I can't even get the Obi to pull an IP address correctly (power light blinks steadily). But on the router it has a DHCP reservation for the Obi's MAC address. Hmmm....