The only thing that that person said (at least, if I understood your interpretation of it), that had a grain of truth to it, was the comparison of VoIP supplied by TWC vs. VoIP supplied by a third party.
The major cable companies who offer VoIP via a "triple play" bundle are generally also CLECs (Competitive Local Exchange Carriers), who control the entire path of the call, including the PSTN and VoIP portions of the call. They typically run VoIP exclusively on their own managed IP networks, instead of the unpredictable public Internet, so they are able to use QOS and traffic shaping technology to provide dedicated, protected bandwidth for the calls. So: VoIP from Comcast, TWC, etc, is generally going to be more reliable and have fewer audio quality issues. Another example of "you get what you pay for".